Your name
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Where were you born? Where did you grow up?
Who was living at home in your family when you were growing up?
How would you describe your siblings from your perspective as a child?
Include their age, number of children, current relationship status and occupation?
How well do get on with them now?
How would you describe your parents, or primary carers, from your perspective as a child? Include their age, and health status
What did your parents do for work?
How well did you know your grandparents?
Why did your mother marry your father?
Why did your father marry your mother?
How did your parents/carers handle conflict?
How did your parents/carers handle emotion?
How did your parents/carers handle discipline? Who took the lead?
Who had the power in their relationship?
Which of your parents/carers were you closest to and why? Which parent did you share your big feelings (need ing comfort, feeling joyful)?
Were there other adults that you were close to growing up, or that were important to you?
How would you describe yourself as a child, and now?
What, if any, major traumatic events happened to you as a child?
What major messages did your mother give you about yourself, and about life?
What major messages did your father give you about yourself, and about life?
How do you think your mother influenced your beliefs about women?
How did your father influenced your beliefs about men?
Who was your favourite childhood hero?
What was your favourite childhood story or fairy tale?
Describe your favourite holiday
How would you describe each of your past significant relationships, if any? Include your age, length of the relationship and how it ended.
How would you describe each of your children?
What would you write as an epitaph on the tombs of your mother, father, spouse/partner and yourself?
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