Having a child who is struggling at school, no matter how hard they try, is distressing for parents.
You may be wondering what’s going on beneath the surface.
Sometimes, the answer lies in early development.
Primitive reflexes develop before birth, and inhibit naturally during infancy.
When retained, they can contribute to learning and behaviour challenges.
Why is my Child Struggling at School – understanding early development and primitive reflexes
Common Signs You Might Notice
The clue to learning difficulties is often in your child’s body and how they move.
Children with retained primitive reflexes may show:
- restlessness or fidgeting
- difficulty concentrating
- poor coordination
- trouble sitting still
- challenges with reading or writing
- difficulty processing what they hear
- emotional overwhelm or anxiety
You may also notice that although your child is trying really hard, they become frustrated, and are easily overwhelmed.
Sometimes, these behaviours can look like signs of ADHD.
What are Primitive Reflexes – could they be affecting my child’s learning?
Behaviour As a Message
What can look like “inattention” or “misbehaviour” is often your child’s way of coping with something that is difficult for them.
These behaviours are worth exploring, rather than dismissing.
When we are able to look beneath the behaviour, we can address the underlying reason for your child’s struggle.
Why Early Development Matters
Early movement and sensory development build the foundation for all later learning – not only in the classroom, but throughout life.
When there are gaps, children may need extra support to strengthen these areas.
Fortunately a developmenta simple assessment can identify the underlying issues that may contribute to your child’s struggle. From there, we can devise a plan to support your child, addressing the underlying issues that are contributing to their struggle.
The goal is to build their capacity for learning, not just tomorrow in the classroom, but for life.
A Gentle Next Step
If you’re noticing several of these behaviours in your child, and they are finding learning difficult, it can help to look more deeply.
Addressing learning difficulties early on can make a big difference in your child’s confidence and learning experience.
If you’re concerned about your child’s learning and behaviour, it’s never too late to seek help. You’re welcome to give me a call.
You might also find helpful:
Why is My child Struggling to Read? Looking Beyond Dyslexia
Learning is More than Just Reading and Writing
Understanding Your Child with Reading Difficulties and Dyslexia
