What Bullying can Look Like: Understanding Different Types

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Bullying can take many forms, and it’s not always easy to recognise.

The clues are often in your child’s behaviour, particularly any sudden or unexplained changes – withdrawal or acting out.

 

Bullying Involves Power

Bullying often comes from an imbalance of power.

It is repeated, intentional behaviour that causes harm—emotionally, physically, or both.

 

Common Types of Bullying

Physical Bullying

  • hitting, pushing, tripping
  • damaging belongings

Verbal Bullying

  • name-calling
  • teasing, taunting
  • put-downs or ridicule

Social Bullying

  • exclusion from groups
  • spreading rumours
  • damaging friendships

Cyber Bullying

  • hurtful messages or emails
  • sharing embarrassing content
  • online exclusion or threats

 

Not All Harm Is Obvious

Some forms of bullying—especially social or emotional—can be harder to see.

But they can be just as harmful.

 

A Gentle Next Step

Helping your child understand what bullying is can empower them to recognise it and seek support.

You might also find it helpful to explore:

👉Understanding bullying – Gentle Support for Parents and Children

Awareness is the first step toward change.

It’s not easy knowing your child is experiencing bullying, and it can trigger significant emotional distress in parents.

If this resonates with you, you’re welcome to reach out.

👉 Work With Me

 

Support Services (Australia)

  • Lifeline – 13 11 14
  • Kids Helpline – 1800 55 1800

All articles are based on personal in-clinic experience, and are supported by current research into brain science. They have been written for general education purposes and do not constitute personal advice. If you are a parent, I encourage you to seek professional support.

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About Rosalind

Rosalind is a PACFA Registered Clinical Counsellor, with over 20 years experience in working with children with challenging behaviours and learning differences. She brings an holistic, or whole person approach to supporting parents, helping them raise children able to realise their potential. to live happy and successful lives. Appointments are available in person at Moruya on the NSW south coast and online Australia-wide.

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