Children don’t always tell us directly when something is wrong.
Instead, their behaviour often brings us the message.
If your child is being bullied, you may begin to notice changes—sometimes subtle, sometimes more obvious.
🌿 What to Look For
You might notice:
- unexplained bruises or physical injuries
- damaged or missing belongings
- nightmares or trouble sleeping
- avoiding school or activities they once enjoyed
- frequent complaints of headaches or tummy aches
- becoming withdrawn or secretive
- having few or no friends
- sudden anger, aggression, or emotional outbursts
These changes can be your child’s way of showing that something doesn’t feel right.
🌿 Behaviour Is Communication
When children are struggling, they don’t always have the words to explain what’s happening.
What may look like “misbehaviour” can actually be a sign of distress.
It’s important to stay curious and gently explore what might be underneath the behaviour.
🌿 Trust Your Instincts
As a parent, you know your child best.
If something feels different, it’s worth paying attention.
Even small changes can be important.
🌿 A Gentle Next Step
If you’re concerned, creating a safe space for your child to talk can make a big difference.
You might also find it helpful to read more about:
- how to support a child who is being bullied
- understanding different types of bullying
You’re not alone in this, and support is available.
